Lap Dance or Chair Dance?

Merriam Webster Dictionary describes lap dance as an activity in which a usually seminude performer sits and gyrates on the lap of a customer.

It has no definition for chair dance. The closest suggestion for it is shrewdness; given to wily and artful ways or dealing . haha!

Essentially i believe be it lap dance or chair dance. To the layman, it is all the same. Everyone will come up with beautiful visions in their brain. And for the male, images that could stir up some serious hormones disco dancing. * you got to move it move it....*

Not trying to kill the glory of the pictures U have in your head right now *tsk tsk* I shall attempt to be a little bit more professional about this topic. *she says rather unimpressively* *oP

In SensUal Joy, a lap dance session is taught using a reasonably large armchair. Can U guess why? The armchair has armrest silly. Hence there are more rooms for movement and creativity. A chair dance workshop is done using.... yeah you got it right this time! a chair!

The chair workshop in SJ is more of MTV style. What U would imagine say hot Britney or saucy Kylie to do when they lay their hands on a chair in music videos.

Implications for the men.....
The lap dance will be a more participative dance. There is physical contact. It is almost a dance by the couple. There are subtle sensual interaction.

In a chair dance, unless U r sitting on the chair, U are probably somewhere else in the space watching. U become technically the passive spectator and your partner is the performer. Then of course, she will have to use her eye contact to maintain constant connection with U.

In summary, for the lap dance, the stimulation is visual and kinesthetic. Whereas in the chair dance, the stimulation is visual.

Hope the information helps. If it doesn't? Well, do a lap dance on her then!

p.s. bear in mind that this is SJ's definition, and it does not necessarily applies to other places that teaches lap dancing and/ chair dancing.