SensUality with Sensibility

"I have to concur with Joy.

I have seen the spam emails for sites proposing to teach men how to date like a dynamo or capture the girl of their dreams.

I'd be laughing except that I have a teen-aged daughter.

Those sites give advice that dehumanizes women and lumps them into categories like fruit at the market. "Take this approach and she will be putty in your hands" they seem to say.

And those sites make millions of dollars.

I would say do not worry except that with the overall approach to women these days, especially in the media, I am seeing young women playing more and more into the hands of, if not sexual predators, dating predators.

The dress and actions of many young ladies today caters to men's dreamy fantasies of the sexualized babe. Eye candy, body hugger, bed warmer. May the best flesh win.

The message being sent is sexual as opposed to sensual.

And if a lady does not know the difference between sexual and sensual she is basically asking for it. You are asking for men to judge you by your body, not your person. You are not a stereotype to be classified by horny men!

We have here on Jurgita a site for of young ladies. In modeling, ladies use their bodies as a marketable commodity. Nothing wrong with that. But there is a differentiation between sexual and sensual even when doing nudes!

Learn sensuality and discard the sexuality. Your careers and lives and love lives will be all the better for it."

- Carib Goodies

Thank U my friend. That is exactly what worries me. On one hand, we have ladies who are totally unaware of their sensUality. On the other, we have ladies who are blind to the real purpose of their sensUality. That what motivates me to keep the studio going. So there is a place to go to for help. And it's private, confidential and safe.

p.s. this is a contribution to my earlier blog entry - Ladies Beware:
http://sensualdiva.blogspot.com/2007/08/ladies-beware.html
Read it for better understanding and awareness ladies!